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Abuse Abuse Assessment

Unhealthy behaviors can creep into a relationship slowly. 

You might wonder if what you're experiencing is normal, or if it's something more.

Get clarity with this assessment. There are no right or wrong answers, just a chance to take a step toward better understanding what you are experiencing.

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Question 1 of 23

Do you feel afraid of your partner much of the time

A

yes

B

No

Question 2 of 23

Do you avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?

A

yes

B

no

Question 3 of 23

Do you feel that you can't do anything right for your partner?

A

yes

B

no

Question 4 of 23

Do you believe you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?

A

yes

B

no

Question 5 of 23

Do you wonder if you're the one who is crazy?

A

yes

B

no

Question 6 of 23

Do you feel emotionally numb or helpless?

A

yes

B

no

Question 7 of 23

Does your partner humiliate or yell at you?

A

yes

B

no

Question 8 of 23

Does your partner criticize and put you down?

A

yes

B

no

Question 9 of 23

Does your partner treat you so badly that you are embarrassed for your friends or family to see?

A

yes

B

no

Question 10 of 23

Does your partner ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?

A

yes

B

no

Question 11 of 23

Does your partner blame you for their own abusive behavior?

A

yes

B

no

Question 12 of 23

Does your partner see you as property or a sex object rather than as a person?

A

yes

B

no

Question 13 of 23

Does your partner have a bad or unpredictable temper?

A

yes

B

no

Question 14 of 23

Does your partner hurt, or threaten to hurt or kill you?

A

yes

B

no

Question 15 of 23

Does your partner threaten to take your children away or harm them?

A

yes

B

no

Question 16 of 23

Does your partner threaten to commit suicide if you leave?

A

yes

B

no

Question 17 of 23

Does your partner force you to have sex?

A

yes

B

no

Question 18 of 23

Does your partner destroy your belongings?

A

yes

B

no

Question 19 of 23

Does your partner act excessively jealous and possessive?

A

yes

B

no

Question 20 of 23

Does your partner control where you and/or what you do?

A

yes

B

no

Question 21 of 23

Does your partner keep you from seeing your friends or family?

A

yes

B

no

Question 22 of 23

Does your partner limit your access to money, the phone/computer, or the car? 

A

yes

B

no

Question 23 of 23

Does your partner constantly check up on you? Track your phone etc?

A

yes

B

no

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